The principal of angel loving is tha Grief, sorrow, hurt, anger and tears are all very legitimate, acceptable, and understandable.Loving angels will help you understand that we do not have to be happy about our loss. But we can accept and respect their having to go. We can understand and accept it. We know their pain has ended. Angels are the mediators of the after life and they guide and protect our loved ones when they go. We can also let angels know it is OK, although we miss our loved once physical presence terribly and wish they didn't have to leave. We would things could be different, but they are not. We want our thoughts to become only positive prayer -- surrounding them with love and caring, compassion and forgiving. Truly we don't have to like what we acknowledge and accept. Our loss hurts, but that can be the witness to our love.
We want our thoughts to become only positive prayer -- surrounding them with love and caring, compassion and forgiving.Anger is real and justifiable. It is usually appropriate around these matters. Recognize, own, and be ready to let go of feelings that will only become harmful. When their appropriate usefulness becomes destructive then do what you can to process and clear. Replace negatives with positives. There are Angels to help. Ask and let them. Communicate all of this openly with the spirit of your loved one on the other-side. Let them know you do not want to encumber them -- only help them. Ask that all you think and feel be as prayer to make everything as easy as possible for them. You may also ask them to help you -- only if it will not burden them. Express your love often and that it will always be. Try to celebrate and honour in remembering them with joy. Loss is deep and devastating. Give yourself time for healing. And seek angels help to assist you. They will help tou discover what works best for you. Do all you can to eliminate feelings of regret, guilt or shame. They are usually neither appropriate nor necessary. Living is dying; and dying is living through transition. Love and take extra splendid care of yourself. Ask Angels for help all-along-the -way.